Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Danytink an Unbiased Mediator?

Danytink are you aware that your postings regarding your pornography obsession are easily accessed via the internet? Maybe the Family Law Court found them too and that's why they are not giving you work as a mediator? Do ya think so?

8 comments:

Anytime Maintenance said...

Your a dickhead mate.

I am chairman of a men's group called WACMEN who support men in their addictions - some of whom struggle with porn.

I do not have a fetish with porn fuckwit.

Danytink

Phoenix said...

Sure Danytink, is that why you went and deleted all the references to your porn addiction today on http://www.cfmboards.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=1048&st=0&sk=t&sd=a&sid=9d95895253d9f00f00a7c367981a9a3d

Lucky we saved a copy here and this is what you wrote:

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danytink Post subject: Porn Addiction Topic - beware!Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 8:15 am


Jedi Knight



Joined: Sun Oct 21, 2007 1:26 am
Posts: 337 This has been a problem of mine in the past and I have had relapses but wondering if anyone wants to talk about it?

One thing is that wives take it very hard when they find out. My wife was very understanding and told me to come to her if ever I felt tempted.I could not have asked for a better friend in that sense.

The problem is that some women will punish their men for it and this seems to drive them more into porn. It's an addiction like any other addiction but porn addiction get's more heat than alcohol or drugs.

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Anytime Maintenance said...

What sort of sick person are you? Getting off on posting stuff about others private lives?

Only a person filled with hate could do this sort of thing.

Please remove your comments - i will be persuing this with Google.

Danytink

Ps - only cowards hide behind aliases.

Phoenix said...

Danytink is your real name? Oh it's an alias is it?
For the record you posted all of your private life over the internet. We don't know anything about that you haven't posted all over the internet.
You are a liar and we really have to wonder how you can act as a mediator given your habits (what sort of porn are you looking at anyway?) and your hatred of certain groups. We don't believe you should be in any sort of responsible position especially as you advertise that you are available counsel teenagers. Take it up with Google by all means, we will take it up the SDA.

Anytime Maintenance said...

Get the Facts - what goes around comes around baby. You get off on this manhating stuff don't you.
Based on your information you had a weak mother figure who never stood up for herself - thus you hate it when men seem to have the upper hand. Stop transferring your hatred for inherant feminine weaknesses onto men and you will be fine.

I do not lie when I say I don't have a fetish for porn - because I don't. 80%of men have toyed with porn in their lifetime and that is the ones who are brave enough to say it. Do you read love novels down there in Tazy? Don't let hubby find out - that's porn for lady's.

PS. I don't work for the SDA Church - go for your life.

Phoenix said...

We are not Get-thefacts and we are a long way from Tasmania. I see that we were not the only people that checked you out after your whine on FLWG. You put it out there, you only have yourself to blame.
We have serious concerns about your role as mediator especially given your habits and views that you have expressed quite openly on the internet and your bias against certain groups.

Mark Winstead said...

Expose,

the evidence seems to indicate Danny has struggled in the past with a porn addiction, not has a porn obsession. There is a difference.

Common statistics show that 70% of men and 28% of women typically view porn at least once per month. Porn addiction is rampant in our society. Now through in other addictions (alcohol, gambling, et al) and others that impact "bias", then you will find it hard to find "unbias" mediators by your standard.

Phoenix said...

Mark,
By Danny's own admission he has a porn addiction which is defined as a compulsion that he cannot overcome. An addiction is a behaviour that is difficult if not impossible to control. His addiction was so great that he made himself wear a wrist band to remind himself on a daily basis not to indulge..not once a month like you profess. Ted Bundy actually blamed a pornography addiction for his crimes against women.There is also evidence that this type of addiction degenerates into even more depraved behaviour.

"WebMD says: The effects of porn on the brain were called "toxic" and compared to cocaine. One psychologist claimed "prolonged exposure to pornography stimulates a preference for depictions of group sex, sadomasochistic practices, and sexual contact with animals."
"Most of the addicts will say, well, here's the stuff I would never look at, it's so disgusting I would never look at it, whatever that is -- sex with kids, sex with animals, sex involving feces," she says. "At some point they often cross over."

Danny has never stipulated exactly what type of pornography that he is addicted to and it is an extremely relevant question given his profession.
Whatever way you view this, Danny has a problem that he is not getting professional help for and is completely at odds with his role as mediator.
Danny says himself on the business website:
"Our counsellor Danny will sometimes tell you of a past life as a young man when he himself struggled with the rigours of a lifestyle of drug and alcohol abuse. Today he is a different man and fully recovered from what he calls a “wild youth”. In fact, this is what motivated Danny in 1989 after a complete recovery and marriage to Carmel his wife to pursue a Degree that would somehow enable him to help others reach their potential and break free from addictive behaviours."
This is a apparently a lie as he has not overcome all of his "addictions".
The Code of Ethics for mediators state:
a) evidence of good character
c) show that they are without any serious conviction or impairment that could
influence their capacity to discharge their obligations in a competent, honest and
appropriate manner;
and
Public communications should not mislead the public, misrepresent facts or contain
any:
a) statements likely to mislead or deceive by making only a partial disclosure of
relevant facts; or
b) statements intended or likely to create false or unjustified expectations of
favourable results.

His comments on various websites about women, homosexuals and the indigenous people also a problem in that he cannot provide a fair and impartial service. It is our suggestion that he seeks professional help as he is bound to do.