Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Update to Familylawwebguide thread on Child Sexual Abuse

D4E a father who chooses to "parallel parent" his daughter because he can't put aside his differences with his ex wife, not even for the sake of his child has made further comments on the thread titled, "Grandfather Inappropriately Touching 15 year old" on familylawebguide.com.au.
Most likely after being alerted to our comments here has attempted to temper what he wrote about the mother projecting her thoughts and feelings after her daughter confided in her that her grandfather touched her.
D4E has now come out whining that he made the comments he did because he assumed that the abuse happened verbally:

"One thing we do need to keep in mind is the nature of the crime so to speak. We have not ask for specifics from Tira and nor should we, but in saying this the advice on how best to deal with the situation would change dramatically if physical contact that was molestation or abuse occurred. I raised the issue of assuming it was a verbal suggestion which is still abuse but more consideration can be given to adopting a solution, if Tira inferred it was physical then this would incur a completely different approach blah blah blah"


Hey Dipshit, the thread is titled "GRANDFATHER INAPPROPRIATELY TOUCHING 15 YR OLD". Did you miss that in your rush to condemn the mother and accuse her of making false allegations? Tira didn't infer anything, she told you outright in the Title and the body of her post, THE GRANDFATHER WAS INAPROPRIATELY TOUCHING THE GIRL!

Maybe one day D4E if your own daughter comes to you with the same problem (God forbid) you will have grown a brain in the interim and realise that there just might be some merit to it or at least err on the side of caution if a child is involved. That is what normal people do, they don't rush to condemn the person making the claim. Get over your bitterness and go back to your daytime television and leave the real issues for the people qualified to help (not any member of familylawwebguide). The only person who recommended the correct course of action was Dominik (thank you). The rest of the posters on that thread are a party to that child being abused and should be held accountable.

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