For Question! who wrote:
"Oh well, I have to keep reminding myself that it's all about the children and the more my husband earns the more he has to fork out, so we have decided that we will never receive another bonus, and I see this as a real shame for our family becasue we can not make a better life for ourselves. "
Our solution for Question!
GET A JOB AND CONTRIBUTE TO SUPPORTING YOURSELF AND YOUR OWN CHILDREN INSTEAD OF WHINING ABOUT HOW MUCH CHILD SUPPORT YOUR HUSBAND HAS TO PAY FOR HIS CHILD THAT WAS THERE BEFORE YOU.
For Styx who wrote:
"I,m one of those dodgy dads that doesn't pay my ex one cent and never will again.(long story)However this has been to the detriment of my two children from this marriage.Only just ,as the demands of CS were too great and unreasonable and we are better off if I work as the homemaker. "
Our solution for Styx.
GET A JOB AND CONTRIBUTE TO SUPPORTING YOURSELF AND ALL OF YOUR CHILDREN INSTEAD OF WHINING ABOUT HOW MUCH CHILD SUPPORT YOU SHOULD PAY AND MAN UP AND PAY IT. OH AND GO AND SEE YOUR CHILDREN YOU LOSER.
For Question! AGAIN who wrote:
"Money hungry women make me angry and because we have now seen this other side to her ....we live interstate and my husband has a job that works ridiculous hours and we are NOT scum bags."
Our solution for Question!
Well Question! you got the response you did because you tried to offer your husband's ex less Child Support than she was entitled to for his children. You choose not to work so why do you think you are entitled to have your husband provide for you and not for his children that were around before you? AND QUESTION!, YOU ARE A SCUM BAG.
For Zoehasrights who wrote:
"If people in this forum whom claim to be all knowledgable intend to give advice, it should be thorough, not the just CSA view. That all perspectives should be forwarded, whether or not they are morally correct shouldn't be questioned, this is a legal forum (you know, legislation, pollies, lawyers, etc; general overpaid xxxx of the earth responsible for forums like these.) ......Even if ones earning drop, there's a long list of reasons, real or faked..." etc etc etc
Our solution for Zoehasrights.
ZOE DOES HAVE RIGHTS (ASSUMING THAT IS YOUR CHILD) AND YOU NEED TO SHOW HER THAT HER FATHER HAS SOME MORALS INSTEAD OF HANGING OUT AT A PUERILE FORUM ADVISING OTHERS HOW TO AVOID PAYING CHILD SUPPORT BY EXTREMELY UNETHICAL MEANS. WE HOPE YOU'RE NOT PASSING ON SOME OF YOUR PEARLS OF WISDOM TO YOUR CHILD BECAUSE THAT WOULD BE CONSIDERED ABUSE.
For Secretary SPCA who wrote:
"We have members who have had significant sick leave, Dr certificates but have still been assessed at higher earnings ."
Our solution for Secretary SPCA.
NOW WAYNE IF YOU'RE TELLING THE STORY YOU HAVE AN OBLIGATION TO TELL THE WHOLE STORY OR ELSE IT IS CONSIDERED LYING BY OMMISSION. THE PERSON WHO WAS ASSESSED AS A HIGHER EARNER WAS JON PEARSON WHO TRIED TO LEAVE WORK WITH OVER $100,000 IN SICK LEAVE ACCRUALS AND THE CSA AND SSAT ALL DEEMED THAT AS EARNINGS AS YOU WELL KNOW. SHAME ON YOU.
For Wozza who wrote:
"I simply run a business that employs my wife and I and provides us with an income to live on. .....We split our income evenly between us.They suggested that because I performed the physical work that I was worth more than my wife and that most of the income should be proportioned to me. So much for equality between sexes."
For then Wozza wrote:
"It was revealed interestingly that my Ex-partner works only 20 hours per week. ....I am only one person that, as it appears, has to support my wife in ill health, her son who is studying and for which we don't receive CS payments, and my children at a rate that will financially ruin me......"
Our solution for Wozza.
WOZZA YOU HAVE A LEGAL AND MORAL OBLIGATION TO SUPPORT YOUR CHILDREN, YOU DON'T HAVE ANY LEGAL OBLIGATION TO SUPPORT YOUR NEW WIFE OR HER SON. JUST BECAUSE YOU LIKE THEM BETTER DOESN'T TAKE AWAY THE OBLIGATION TO PROVIDE FOR THE CHILDREN YOU ALREADY FATHERED. MAN UP AND STOP WHINING OR BETTER YET MAKE YOUR NEW WIFE GO OUT TO WORK LIKE YOU EXPECT YOUR EX TO DO. THE CSA HAVEN'T BEEN UNFAIR, YOU HAVE! AND YOU'RE A LIAR, YOU TOLD THE CSA THAT YOU EMPLOY YOUR WIFE AND THEN YOU SAY SHE IS ILL. NO WONDER NOBODY BELIEVES YOU.
More from Question! who wrote:
"Why should you have to pay for something that you didn't want? There are other options for a mother in this situation; however, she decided to keep the baby without my husband agreeing, so I believe she should fit the bill. I know this sound rash, but its how I and I am sure thousands of others feel. By the way before everyone gets upset we are law abiding citizens and pay, eventhough I think it is WAY too much for something we get no use out of. "
Our solution for Question!
NOTHING TO SAY HERE EXCEPT YOU ARE A FIRST CLASS SCUMBAG.
Posters like Wozza, Question!, Nxus, Bigred, Styx, Vermingard and Zoehasrights are the new breed of deadbeat parents that are attracted to the pus factory that is familylawwebguide.com.au.
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In reply to your attack on yours truly, I was merely pointing out options and ways people can and DO avoid child support. Maybe I was being the devils advocate and perhaps you don't understand that concept.
In regards to hanging out in puerile forums, for me it was a recent adventure and since I have been banned for offending too many moderators, mostly for pointing out reasons you have posted on this blog. A blog you no doubt have gain great pleasure from and one that wouldn't exist if not for you hanging out at FLWG.
zoehasrights
forgot to mention my own blog..
http://csa-issues.blogspot.com/
We're not sure why you feel the need to defend who you are and what you do. And you're right, this is a crappy job but someone has to do it.
Perhaps if you bothered to read some of my other posts you would have realised I'm not a 'deadbeat' parent hanging around 'pus' forums.
As to yourself, I have a strong feeling you have a vendetta against moderators of the FLWG and men in general. Build a bridge and get a life.
Your blog is a testament to ignorance. You quote statistics without basis, studies that don't exist and make grand assumptions based on what? Your own experience?
You should pay your Child Support arrears and stay off the internet.
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